Date Me

Hello! Thank you so much for stopping by and getting to know me.

My name is Harish and I’m a 42-year-old man. I live in North London with my two adorable young boys who I care for part time. I’m a kind and genuine person with a lot of life experience, including a failed marriage. After quite some healing, I feel like I am in a good, creative place, and have the enthusiasm to find my forever person. ☺️

Oscar on Harish's shoulders
Harish on his sofa
Harish and Hugo at a fair

As a self-proclaimed nerd, I’ve studied a lot and make a living making silly things on the web. I do some of this in the context of a company I co-created, and it’s going surprisingly well after years of toil. πŸ’«

I am looking for a deep and lifelong relationship with a woman (30+, either cis or trans). I am especially drawn to gentle and creative people, and I have a dream where I make cute and meaningful things with my partner as we go through life. I also fantasise about singing together 🎀, as it is something that gives me a lot of joy.

I’m a thoughtful and introspective person who thrives in intimate settings rather than bustling social environments. Although I’ve struggled with social anxiety and depression in the past, I’ve made significant progress in my personal growth through therapy, journaling and self-reflection. My journey has taught me to be a more compassionate and empathetic person, and I’m proud of the individual I’ve become today. πŸ™

I’ve been a lifelong vegetarian πŸ₯• for cultural reasons, and I tend vegan on some days just by happenstance. I believe we would have even more in common if you were vegetarian too, but please know that it’s not a requirement for us to be a good match.

Harish at a pub
Harish and Oscar
Harish at park

As a father, I prioritise being affectionate and fully engaged with my children. πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦ While I’m not sure I have the stamina to raise any more biological children at my age, I would absolutely love to support and care for any little ones you may already have.

And with that, thank you for taking the time to read through this page! πŸ€—

If you feel that we could be a good match, please write to me. While I am searching for a romantic partner, I’m also open to forming meaningful connections of all kinds. I am excited to get to know you.